• I am very tired and very sad. I'm sure I'll get angry in the coming days, but I'm just...sad. And I'm feeling extra conflicted because I'm not entirely out to everyone, so while I want to speak about it, I want to rage and weep, I feel like I can't. I'm listening to a lot of Andrea Gibson (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HDCF7eh7lWQ) and petting my dog.

  • You might also like O Human Star and Hinges, judging by your list. ;) I'm a huge comics fan too, definitely going to check out a few that you've listed that I haven't read before!

  • Thank you! I'm very, very lucky that my partner is super understanding and has my back on all of the stuff we're struggling with while we prep for the wedding. It's definitely proven that I'm marrying the right person.

  • Hi all!

    I'm Kit (crookedcig is fine, though you also might know me on the internet as crhodey (Tumblr) or crosberg). Like a couple of people have said, I generally just identify as queer because it's a bit easier than going into all the detailed nuances of my gender presentation and who I'm attracted to. 30k foot view is pansexual femme, I guess? I dunno.

    I'm a huge nerd, I review & write about comics as well as editing an annual comic anthology that's all women/nb folks.

    I think one of the big reasons I was excited to join this group is because I'm getting married in September to an awesome guy and it's been messing with my head a bunch to fight the heteronormative bullshit that comes along with weddings between people who present as opposite genders. Having a cool queer space to come and vent/defrag/hang with people who get it will be really great.