Not an issue. It's arthritis and my pinky finger was collapsed into my hand. So in order to get the finger open I had to get a plate put on the middle joint to fuse the bone so it'll stay in an open position. Otherwise the finger would continue to be uselessly folded into my palm. At least now it's in a permanent position that will let me hold glasses and wear gloves (not mittens) etc.
Oh. Well before I retired she hadn't had a car in 5 years and was living with her aunts divorced husband for 3 years with her son. Never saved a penny even though she paid 0 bills and worked a state job.
After I retired (we were together dating by then) she quit her job within 4 months, moved into my house, asked that homeschool her son while she "got a breath of fresh air from the stresses of life."
Stopped paying for anything, moved her sister into my house, loaned people money (my money), and kept opening businesses that I funded and she gave up on after less than a month each.
And I agreed to all of this because I knew how hard her life was and saw the good qualities in her and believed I could help bring them out and married her a year later.
2 years after that she has demanded I buy a 20k car to carry her family members around on vacations, a 170k house with enough garage space for her older sister to have an office, 4 bedrooms so her younger 18yr old sister can live there.
Turns into a rampaging mess anytime I leave her with the kids for longer than 1 hour and then leaves me at home with them sometimes for a day or two and expects me to do way better (for some reason).
Asks me to help her with the house by cleaning the bedrooms, washing the dishes, keeping the kids in order, doing laundry, fixing all the things in the house, giving the baby a bath, making sure her son does his schoolwork right and completely, driving her sister around, not having a schedule in case she needs to do something. While she cooks and considers any of my free time as a hobby that I should spend doing things with her instead.
Well we have a kid together and I really do love her. I've tried everything from trying to get her to do online work with me, give her a budget of money she can do anything with instead of blowing everything out of our account, participate in activities together.
She just doesn't want to go outside the house and do anything, and she has a low tolerance for the kids. I mean she really is a lazy bum and incompetent parent and idk why I love her. Maybe it's just the part of me that needs to take care of damaged people...because i've done so good in life and maybe this is my way of sharing?
Well I mean even being all my side......I don't know why someone would do all those things. I mean if there were something wrong I would wonder if she would even tell me rather than wanting money and all her free time to herself for the last 4 something years. =/
rn it's 19.15, and im thinking that i am hungry but there's no food because i was too lazy to go to the supermarket today
Drink lots of water!! Will keep you alive until you get to the shop
8:31 Buying my wife two rings. One as a Mother's day gift and one just because she is sexy.
You are a good partner!! She is very lucky
It's 6:30 and I'm off to another stressful day at work
Smoke weed!
How would that help ?
10:25, thinking I want to go to bed soon and that loanwords exist and I don't really like the song that's playing right now.
Change the song and go to bed
7:15 pm and should I hit post or not
What?
That's what I was thinking.
You stoned?
That's what I was thinking.
Obviously
6:30 am
Good time, no 4:20 but it's up there
it's 00:17 and i'm tired
Sleep so...
5.51 pm
I'm thinking I want a drink of my tea, but it's too hot at the moment
It's never too hot for tea
The weather's not too hot, but the tea itself was too hot. The cup was melting my splint
Ok so avoid tea. What happened to you?
Surgery ages ago, that hasn't yet fully healed. Had my 6 week follow-up and the bone hadn't fused yet, so I have another 4 weeks of immobility.
Oh god, can I ask why you needed surgery?
Not an issue. It's arthritis and my pinky finger was collapsed into my hand. So in order to get the finger open I had to get a plate put on the middle joint to fuse the bone so it'll stay in an open position. Otherwise the finger would continue to be uselessly folded into my palm. At least now it's in a permanent position that will let me hold glasses and wear gloves (not mittens) etc.
That sounds painful
3:14 PM I've never designed sprites ever. Why am i not motivated!?
Don't worry, I'm sure you will get motivated... you just have to have a lot interest in what your doing
It's 550pm and I'm thinking my wife might be a lazy incompetent bum of a person/mother.
You are a lovely person.....
Thank you.....
Why is she a bum??
Oh. Well before I retired she hadn't had a car in 5 years and was living with her aunts divorced husband for 3 years with her son. Never saved a penny even though she paid 0 bills and worked a state job.
After I retired (we were together dating by then) she quit her job within 4 months, moved into my house, asked that homeschool her son while she "got a breath of fresh air from the stresses of life."
Stopped paying for anything, moved her sister into my house, loaned people money (my money), and kept opening businesses that I funded and she gave up on after less than a month each.
And I agreed to all of this because I knew how hard her life was and saw the good qualities in her and believed I could help bring them out and married her a year later.
2 years after that she has demanded I buy a 20k car to carry her family members around on vacations, a 170k house with enough garage space for her older sister to have an office, 4 bedrooms so her younger 18yr old sister can live there.
Turns into a rampaging mess anytime I leave her with the kids for longer than 1 hour and then leaves me at home with them sometimes for a day or two and expects me to do way better (for some reason).
Asks me to help her with the house by cleaning the bedrooms, washing the dishes, keeping the kids in order, doing laundry, fixing all the things in the house, giving the baby a bath, making sure her son does his schoolwork right and completely, driving her sister around, not having a schedule in case she needs to do something. While she cooks and considers any of my free time as a hobby that I should spend doing things with her instead.
Leave her. Don't divorce her, just leave her and make a will and leave nothing for her.
Well we have a kid together and I really do love her. I've tried everything from trying to get her to do online work with me, give her a budget of money she can do anything with instead of blowing everything out of our account, participate in activities together.
She just doesn't want to go outside the house and do anything, and she has a low tolerance for the kids. I mean she really is a lazy bum and incompetent parent and idk why I love her. Maybe it's just the part of me that needs to take care of damaged people...because i've done so good in life and maybe this is my way of sharing?
Bulshit, she is a waste of space and shitty person. Leave. No excuse, take the kids with you.
Now this all your side so I am being bias.
Well I mean even being all my side......I don't know why someone would do all those things. I mean if there were something wrong I would wonder if she would even tell me rather than wanting money and all her free time to herself for the last 4 something years. =/
Just stay with her. I see why she is using you.
Is it because I'm too nice?
Well no, it's because you are easy to use
Agreed. =/
If I didn't believe that I could make her life better and make her better I would leave. =/
It is 1:07pm and I'm exhausted
I don't blame you. Life is too effing hard
It's nearly 9am and I am trying to find a reason to get out of bed.
Don't stay in it