What you're keeping inside of you that you need to share - anonymously. To purge.
I think my significant other secretly hates me
I know it sounds crazy. Something bad happened out of our control. I think my SO needs to blame someone.
Since that time there have been no dates, meaningful touching, sharing the bed, compliments, long kisses, or romantic moments. There has been lots of silence.
My SO states that they love me the same.
What's going on?




Maybe they're pulling away because they need space to deal with what happened. But it's also possible they really do blame you, somehow. There's no way anyone can give you meaningful insight with this little context.
You're going to have to ask them yourself, either way. Guesswork doesn't save relationships. Communication does.
I would say communication is the biggest thing here. Ask for what you need.
If there is something blocking them try to help them through it. If it is a matter of the love fading or the other person not being willing to make any effort to repair this, then make your break.
In the past when I've been like this it's because I needed space to process. How long has this been going on for?
She's just not that into you.
That was not helpful...