What you're keeping inside of you that you need to share - anonymously. To purge.
It's easier for me to imagine that my ex died.
I don’t relate to people who google their exes, or remain Facebook friends with them. It may be petty, but I don’t want to know anything about my ex’s life. Dating? Remarried? With kids? I don’t want to know about it.
It’d be easier to be a widow. People have more sympathy for widows. Not that I’m looking for sympathy but... it’s less painful to imagine that my ex is gone because of extraordinary circumstances than to know that my ex chose to leave. That my ex crushed me in a gleeful rush to get onto the next adventure.
No, I cannot “be happy that it happened rather than sad that it ended”. All of that canned “wisdom” is completely useless to me. If I could erase every memory of my ex from my brain – good and bad – I would.




I'm currently doing NC over my ex. Not because I want him to miss me and some day get back together with me, but because we plan to stay friends. I love him too much to be able to go straight platonic without space. It does hurt to lose someone you love romantically but I generally remind myself how selfish and inconsiderate he is. Which makes me feel better cause I was the bread winner in the relationship. LOL
I still miss my ex. but my aim is improving...
My aim as well ❤