Not Proud. But What's Done Is Done

I slept with a married man 7 years ago. It was a one-time thing over a weekend. It wasn't love, but I was hoping it was. He went back to his wife and didn't speak to me again for 4 months. (We were friends for 3 years before this.)

I can honestly say I'm not tempted to do it again. It's useless and left me feeling MORE lonely than I was before. He wasn't that great in the sack either - I believe mostly because I wasn't the love of his life. (But seriously, his oral game was TERRIBLE.)

No orgasm is worth feeling like so much shit that 7 years later you type up a note to warn others away from making such a bad and pointless decision, but here we are.

Don't be like me, folks. If he's married, walk away. Even if you find out after the fact - walk away and never look back. Don't fuck him, fuck your friendship because you were never friends in the first place. I promise you.