A safe place for Daddys/Mommys and littles of all ages and types. We won't judge, you don't either...
What being a DD means to me...
I read so many manifestos and treatises, hell I have written a few, but right now I feel the need to expound a bit, so bear with me.
My knowledge of being a Daddy is fairly new. What I knew about it came from friends in the gay community. While the idea was in a way, very attractive. But being the CIS male I am though, made the idea off limits. The idea of ageplay is also more than a bit disconcerting as well. Seeing that I raised two wonderful, strong, complete daughters. TBH it made me think of Daddy issues. Yeah, I know! So like many I knew dominance is in my dna so that was how I identified. It still left me feeling incomplete.
Anyway I started noticing the number of people identifying as Daddies. I admitted I was intrigued, but not enough to actually ask. But eventually I went back to the font of all kink knowledge, my gay friends who have been a Daddy/boy couple for over 50 years. Whenever I have any question, they seem to have the answer, they even cut it into bite size chunks my poor hetro mind can handle. This time was no different. But it really resonated. I asked them about my being a Dom. Almost in unison they told me I was not just a Dom, I am a Daddy.... Huh?
I was a bit perplexed. But the next bit made complete sense. Whenever someone needed a couch, who offered? If someone needed a meal, who fed them? If someone had a broken heart, who was there to listen? No matter the hour, no matter the circumstance, awakened at 4 am always there to help. The first question always is, "how can I help?" Being a Daddy is about care, support and love. For everyone, not just your coterie. Oh my god....I am a Daddy!
Understand your little one has pride of place, first in your heart, your mind and in everything, but she knows that Daddy will help anyone needing him. He will open his heart to anyone who needs it. But here's the magic part, for every piece of his heart he gives, his heart gets bigger, and her place is even more secure. She is his baby girl, his only desire, his passion, his love and while he is a Dom, he is her slave as well. Daddy does not seek the sad, the hurt, the damaged, they find him. Just like you found him. His light burns bright, but only the right ones see it. Those who need help, and those who can love him. Sometimes he needs to be reminded who you are.
So little ones, when Daddy helps others, cares for more than it seems possible to do, his heart gets bigger just for you. So hold up your head high, get up on tip toes, give him a big kiss, then hug him, because he needs it sometimes just to make it through the day. But at night it's you he reaches for you to be his stuffie. Oh and now it's game on, because who knows, the phone might ring? If you are a clever little one, you will,turn off his phone for a bit to have better playtime. But do not forget to turn it back on.
Okay... Nuff said?



