Anti-fem/slash sentiment in fandom

It feels like there are more and more people these days who are vocal about how awful slash and femslash are, how they're the thing killing fandom, how all slashers are just MSF ATGers, all femslashers are just migratory SJWs, etc. Meanwhile if you so much as say that you're not comfortable with het you get jumped on for ~hating women~ (even if you are a woman, even if you ship femslash, etc).

I'm just so tired of this. You may think you're only talking about pairings of fictional characters, but the thing that unites the pairings you're being so nasty about is that they consist of two or more people who share a gender. And as a woman who is attracted to people who share her gender, it's really getting to me.