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Heyo got a question :)
What should I do? I'm pretty sure I'm Bisexual but I don't know how to deal with it. I have told one of my best friends but I'm annoyed about having to keep my true sexuality secret but I'm too scared to come out to my family and school. Has anyone got any advice on this. (BTW I'm in high school and they're very judgemental)




Honestly, if you don't want to come out or you feel you'd be in danger of people treating you poorly if you did so, then you don't need to come out. It's okay to wait until a time in your life where you'd feel safe before coming out more publicly. "Out and proud" is great but it's not the only way to live and not being out doesn't make you less valid or less bi than someone who is out.
That said, I can understand it must be frustrating to feel like you have to keep it a secret. Do you have any lgbt friends online? Good, supportive online communities can be a good way to get through such times. Even if it's not quite the same as having supportive people directly around you, it would give you friends to talk to who will understand what you're going through and accept you for who you are.
Thanks for being so supportive :)
Anytime. I hope things look up for you!
All of this, basically. I'm bi, not out to my family and probably won't be until I date someone.
Only people I'm out to are 5 IRL friends + a number of online friends.
If/when you decide to tell your family, look up some coming out guides.
Whatever you decide to do, I hope you stay safe and happy
Thank you :) I hope you have a good experience when you come out to your family and I hope they're as supportive as you :)
Thank you ❤️ best of luck!