My personal space for posting my artsy crafty stuff and other things that interest me. Come on in and say Hi. <3
What do you think about me?
Serious answers requested on how folks view me via my internet presence. Do I strike you as someone who has my shit together? What do you think I am good at? Anything I could improve on?
Sometimes it's hard to evaluate yourself without getting twisted up in your own head. So I am genuinely curious as to how other folks I interact with perceive me.
If you absolutely have to you may comment anonymously but I encourage you to be open with me. Especially if there are things you see that could use improvement or adjustments, it's nice to be accountable.




I'd just like to say that I'd never have the brass to post something like this in my personal comm! (And there is NO anon posting allowed in my comm.)
No constructive criticism for me, thanks!
As for you: I think you're a delightful presence throughout this place, as a leader and participant. I know you're seeking perspective and critiques -- not fishing for compliments -- but I think you're a vital part of the ecosystem here.
Hahaha I was a bit nervous posting this myself but I figured. The worst anyone could say would either be a lie and therefore not worth my time or something that perhaps I really was unaware of (perception is a bitch!) so I didn't have anything to lose really.
Thanks for posting Zork!
Seconding this big time...you have a huge presence on Imzy.
This is so weird to me. I never thought Imzy would really be a place I did much more than lurk. Thanks so much for all the feedback.
I'm glad you're much more than a lurker. This isn't just me blowing mindless sunshine: the place depends on you and others to make it as colorful and intelligent and compassionate as it is. You're a vital part of the reason people want to come back to visit. That's invaluable.
I'm a big proponent of "it is what you make it" so Imzy just seemed too golden to waste. ❤
You don't strike me as shy, @Zork. Or maybe you do strike me as a bit shy, and that's why I can't help poking at you because I find your talent amazing and delightful.
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!
A lot of people don't think I'm shy. Going back a ways, in the really real world. I'd say I vacillate. Between introverted and extroverted. But I tend to think of myself as shy.
... very social. :-)
Thanks for participating!
I agree with this too. I'm always a little jealous of those of you who seem to have the knack for being sociable with many people, even if it is online. I could never figure it out 😄
I'll tell you a secret... I don't have many real life friends at all and large groups of people make me anxious. Yet I have this knack for public speaking... Weird eh?
I'm working on a book where magic is something we use every day but don't acknowledge it as such. You have something like magic charisma that can travel over the interwebz and, apparently public speaking.
:D
That's so funny you would mention magic because when I use the word "knack" the frame of reference for me is from a fictional character describing how "real magic" works. Haha.
You made me feel welcome from the start and continue to be consistently thoughtful, supportive and friendly without belying yourself to do so. I think you share enough personal information to seem genuine without making it awkward. Online you've achieved an excellent balance. All of that leads to the conclusion that you do in fact have at least some of your shit together.
If I were to make a suggestion it would be to not restrain yourself. Imzy seems like a creative, safe space and you're a bit of a leader here. If you continue to show your humor, your creativity, your vulnerability, others will be inspired by your strength and do likewise. I appreciate you and I'm glad you're here.
Thanks so much for contributing to this conversation. This has been an interesting experiment.
Do I strike you as someone who has my shit together?. Yes, but not by traditional, white-picket-fence standards. I think you have decided to be your own person with your own standards. For instance, your hair colours are what you decide even if others don't get you. Same for humour. :D
What do you think I am good at? Anything I could improve on?
You are good at posting frequently. You are one of the people who inspire community here. Thank you.
Thanks for the feedback ShanShen!
And yeah definitely not a white-picket-fence type of Lizard.
I'm commenting without looking at other people's comments. (Well, except the one in which I was referenced...)
In the less than two months I've been getting to know you, you have struck me as kind, having a good sense of humor about life and yourself even (especially) when you are dealing with tough stuff, thoughtful about yourself and others, and welcoming. I know we all need improving on something, but I truly think that lies in your own heart; if there's something specific that you want to tackle, I know you have an interested, opinionated audience who would probably love to chime in.
I feel lucky to have met you. Gee, I sure I hope I don't hate you in six months. Given how I'm a figment of your imagination and all.
Nice!
Heh. Now I'm all paranoid. "Does she mean 'nice' as in 'gee, that was totally unhelpful' or 'nice' as in 'gee, that's sweet' or 'nice' as in 'gee, she doesn't get me AT ALL does she?'" 💙
Haha nah it was a quick I'm running out the door but I want to indicate I read this. Hahah
I hope you don't hate me in 6 months either. Awwwwkwaaaard. <3
I'm actually really glad someone sees the weird shit I deal with. Because yeah I was starting to feel "too well adjusted" with all this praise.
Liz, you're awesome: to be around, and as a person. You do a ton for the community and you're an amazing presence on any community you join.
Thanks for posting @FlyingNarwhal :)
I honestly can't say that I've known you long enough to make a proper evaluation, but from what I've interacted with you thus far, I'd have to say you're pretty damn awesome. The fact that I am actually seeking you out to interact with you is a fair indication of that, since even online, I tend to be rather reserved and limit myself to people I've known for years and have developed a strong trust for.
Either way, I have a good feeling about you. Plus your being made of Canadian Awesome™ doesn't hurt. ^.~
Aww wow that's awesome to hear.
Also yay Canada.
You seem to have a handle on your health issues and project a positive attitude.
This is surprising to me. Thanks for the answer!
I second @MsFortitude 's assessment <3
Thanks Merah!
You do in fact strike me as someone who has their shit together.
However limited your physical spoons may be, you seem to have plenty of extra mental ones that you use to help others on Imzy (ie Elly or Imzy devs, etc). You are a huge influencer in my experience and presence here on Imzy, and I will always be extremely grateful for that.
I am usually too intimidated to talk to you one on one, but from what I observe, you are very easy going and fun, but definitely have a serious side that doesn't come out that often.
You have a strong personality and speak constructively. I also think you're an amazing artist.
Thanks Merah! PS don't ever be afraid to reach out. <3
May I ask if it is something I am projecting that feels intimidating? This is not the first time I have heard that word in relation to myself and I never managed to get a straight answer before.
:)
Well, my answer may be partially unhelpful, as I think some of it is my own "things".
I have a habit of being too intimated to reach out to people I admire or respect because...I guess I view their time as more valuable than mine? That I don't have anything meaningful to say or discuss, and therefore shouldn't bog them down with meaningless small talk (I personally hate this and am hyper aware of it)?
Also because from my pov, you guided and looked out for me when I first got here, I see you as a...I'm not sure how to put it. If there was such a thing as a social hierarchy, I would see you as higher up on the food chain than me. And you don't casually socialize upwards (in merah's ridged rule book of non nonsensical things).
Also also because you paid so much attention to me when I first arrived (and in my mind didn't "earn" it), I don't want you to feel like I'm so eternally grateful and now you can't get rid of me (another thing I'm super aware of and hate...being kind sometimes bites you in the ass).
Aaaannndd that's all for my oversharing. 😓
Hey! I totally get the "time" thing... Gah especially in person. So you're not alone in that. I would rather crawl under a rock sometimes than speak to someone I feared I was "bothering"...
Thanks so much for being open and sharing with me Merah. It's valuable to see things through the lens of another person even if your minds don't pick out the same patterns.
Also. I assure you I don't mind being "stuck with you" at all. Hehehe.
YESSSSS!!!!!!!!!
(starts unpacking)
😂😂😂
We'll have to ask @Zork @misbegotten and @alivelystory if there is an extra room in my attic. Hahaha
It's getting to be a fire hazard in here!
Somebody call the fire marshal!
::pokes @Zork with her spork:: Stop stepping on my feet!
SPORK FIGHT!!!
I think you look cool as heck, and like a very interesting, creative person :-)
merci beaucoup!
De rien!