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Communication is everything... and these are some awesome tips!
Clarity Is Contagious! - Ask for Specifics When Asking for What You Want...
Exercising Your Clarity Muscles In 3 Easy Steps To Get MORE Of What You Want In Life and In Bed... If you know me, you know I'm a big fan of exercises I can do myself that give me clarity. Why? Because when I've taken steps towards becoming clear, others often react to me in more [...]
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I love, love, love this focus on specificity! And I love that this exercise considers actually asking to be bonus, but not the point. I think getting clear on our own desires is so important, even before we communicate them to someone else.




What a great exercise!
Right now, I want two things:
I want my partner to massage the back of my neck and my upper shoulders with lotion or oil, with medium-heavy pressure, for at least ten minutes.
I want to masturbate using my fingers until I reach an intense clitoral orgasm.
Those both sound really satisfying and pleasurable to me right now. :)