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Ladies, Does Your Guy Feel Emasculated By Your Vibrator?
Ladies, Does Your Guy Feel Emasculated By Your Vibrator?
Editor's note: This particular article is drawn from the author's experience as a cisgender woman who has sex with cisgender men. Ravishly recognizes that not all women have vaginas/clits and not all vaginas/clits are attached to women - and that vibrators are for everyone! "I don't understand why you're writing about this."
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It's really sad that so many guys feel like this. I honestly think some women become a little overly dependent on vibrators, but if that's what it takes to get off, that's what it takes to get off. We deserve great orgasms, too!
I've only ever dated cis men or amab nonbinary people, and I never thought this was even an issue. o.o I guess I have good taste and also stay the fuck away from normative men, lol.
WTF my hubby was the guy who GOT me my vibe as an anniversary present. I wouldn't WANT to be with someone who got jealous of inanimate objects. Anyone whose sense of masculinity is so fragile a chunk of vibrating plastic breaks it isn't someone I want to be with.
My ex felt threatened by my toys. I always thought that was weird since the toys don't have a heartbeat and aren't a person I love.
My current partner likes playing with the toys WITH me and occasionally borrows them for himself (with, yknow, appropriate clean-up and everything of course). Yay!
Mine certainly doesn't but I had a friend whose certainly did. He acted like he pretty much had the right to tell her not to get one and so I bought her one anyway because honestly if he thinks he can do that he deserves the giant proverbial middle finger.
A similar question from a male viewpoint is, do women feel cheated if men masturbate? To make it more equivalent, how do women feel about fleshjacks? I mean essentially is the same thing, using a mechanical analogue to replicate the desired event.
Take how that feels and then talk it out with men, and maybe we find that it doesn't replace other people, and the wonders of sexuality in each others lives, but enhances it because we learn by trying. Women learn just as men do, and if only we could be brutally honest with each other about what it is that we like, then maybe everyone could be a little bit happier. :)