Identity Incongruence

The other day, a friendquaintance made a comment to me about how it's odd/confusing that I as an ace would be interested in bodange. I've been thinking about making a longer post about that (beyond the basic "hey aces can be kinky too!" which. is a message that's already out there.) but for now, I thought I'd ask here:

Do you have any identities, labels, backgrounds, etc. that make it "weird" for you to be into what you're into?

Alternatively -- are there any of the above that make you feel uncomfortably like "a stereotype"?