Moving?

EDIT : It's nice to talk to someone who actually hears what we say and gives importance to it, and doesn't try to pull all the shit our mother does. He seems to be overall open. Though we're going to have to keep emphasizing to him that if we're discouraged from showing our weird (but I'm sure harmless) behavior (like autism, plurality), then we're discouraged from showing our real, constant, unavoidable self.

We're discussing with our dad (over the course of several days) if we can live with his family instead of our mother. I'm concerned because if we can't make it work I don't know what we'll do. I'm hoping they can accept our baggage if we try to give back good vibes and helping hands when able. I'm hoping that living with them helps us get stable enough to find a handhold and pull ourselves closer to upright.